Behind the Mask of the Sexual Harasser

by Coach Craig | Nov 30, 2017 | Accountability, Addiction, Habit Cycle, Life Improvement, objectification, Oogling and Objectifying, Podcast, Porn Addiction, Power Abuse, Sex Addiction

Highlights Sexual harassers come across as cocky and powerful. The principle of subpersonalities can help us see and understand the part of the harasser that acts in inappropriate ways. These different subpersonality of the sexual harasser usually feels insignificant...

3 Labels Better Than “Sex Addiction”

by Coach Craig | Jun 22, 2017 | Addiction, Intimacy Disorder, Life Improvement, Porn Addiction, Relationships, Sex Addiction, Sexual authenticity disorder, Tools

Highlights We need labels that help us move beyond “sex addiction” and “porn addiction.” Other labels are important because “addiction” is limiting. Two important issues are intimacy and authenticity. Acknowledging the nature of your behavior is as important step...

Interview with a Mindful Porn Addict

by Coach Craig | Jun 20, 2017 | Addiction, Habit Cycle, Life Improvement, Meditation, Mindfulness, Podcast, Porn Addiction, Relationships, Sex Addiction, Shame

Highlights Sex is not a topic of conversation in most modern homes, which leads to a great amount of guilt and shame around unhealthy sexuality Online porn can get its hooks in us and it’s hard to break free Mindfulness can help you regain control of your life and...

Perspective Learned by Holding My Son’s Lifeless Body

by Coach Craig | Jun 20, 2017 | Accountability, Life Improvement, Mindfulness, Podcast, Relationships, Tools

Summary Craig shares a deeply personal story when his 13 year-old son collapsed – lying lifeless in his body, Craig asked himself, “Where’s the gift?” And saw the gift was love – for the deep pain wouldn’t exist but for love. Listen how this traumatic...

Am I Addicted or Do I Have A Relationship Problem?

by Coach Craig | May 31, 2017 | Addiction, Life Improvement, Porn Addiction, Relationships, Sex Addiction, Shame

Highlights What’s the difference between addiction and relationship problem? When does compulsive porn use become an addiction? Two examples help illustrate why the ‘porn addiction’ label is not helpful Am I Addicted or Do I Have A Relationship Problem? This is an...

Elevating and Evolving Your Accountability: How to be accountable to YOU!

by Coach Craig | Apr 28, 2017 | Accountability, Addiction, Life Improvement, Podcast, Porn Addiction, Sex Addiction, Tools

Highlights Level one accountability focuses on reporting To truly be successful, we need level two accountability, which focuses ownership that drives you to create results. Second level accountability is only possible through self-love, operationalized through...